Doctor ka zawhna (Sept 16, 2018)

Zawhna: Ka pu, ka thianpa tan zawhna ka rawn zawt duh a. Kum 18 mi a ni a, kan inkawmngeih viau a, thian dang pawh a ngah viau tho. Ngaihzawng pawh hi pahnih chu a nei ve ngei tawh a, a virgin tawh lo tih min hrilh bawk. Ka rilru tibuaitu ber chu mipa dang itna ang deuh hi a nei leh tlat thin a, a pangngai viau chuan ka hre si a, tuai kan tih ang hi chu a ni hauh lo chuan ka hria. Hmeichhia ang zawnga han inchei danglam emaw, han an châkna emaw pawh a nei chuang lo va, a aw pawh hi mipa aw pangngai ang chu a ni vek a, kan hmuhnawm tih zawngte pawh football, UFC tih te hi a ni a. Keima lakah hi chuan chutiang zawng chuan a awm ngai lo va, a kawm thin mipa dang laka a awm dan hi a dik lo leh deuh thin a (ka sawi fiah thiam chiah lo). Ka han zawh hian a pha viau bawk sia, engtia tih chi nge maw ni dawn le? Puih theih dante a awm em? Tih dan tur min hrilh theih chuan ka lawm khawp ang.

Chhanna:  I zawhna rawn zawh hi chhan harsa ang reng tak mai a ni a, mi dang zawt ta la, kan chhan dan che pawh a inang lo hial mai thei. Kohhran hruaitu, Pastor te zawt ta la, an chhan dan che pawh a dang leh viau mai thei bawk.

Hetiang zawhna hi ka dawng tam lo khawp mai a, harsatna nei hi chu an awm ngei thung a ni. Mipa, mahni anpui kawp chingte tana program kalpuitu hi FXB NGO an awm a, an client-te zingah hian nupui nei reng chunga an mipatpui kawp ru hi an awm nawk a ni.

Engpawh nise, keima hriatthiam dan angin chhan che ka tum ang a, i la duh khawp lo a nih pawhin Clinical Pyschologist-te pawh i lo rawn dawn nia (Civil Hospital lamah hian an rawn theih reng a ni).

Mahni anpui kawp (homosexuality) hi khawvel inhnialna lian tak a ni a, USA-ah meuh pawh tun hnai lawk khan inneih phalna an pe chauh a nih kha. Chu pawh chu dodaltu an thahnem a, a bikin Christian community lamin an dodal nasa hle a ni. Kristian kan nih angin kan innghahna ber, Bible thu kan en chuan Pathian phal loh chu a ni chiang ngei mai. Mahse, Pathian duh loh chu kawp chakna (tendency) ni lovin a tih tak takna (physical act) lai kha a ni thung.

Mihring kan pianphungah hian kan lo thanlen chhoh hun lai hian mi tam tak chuan homosexual inclination (mahni anpui kawp theihna lam hawi nungchang) an nei fo niin mi thiamte chuan an sawi a. He kawp mai thei dinhmun a ding tam zawk hi chu an thanlenna boruak te, chhungkaw inkaihhruaina avangtein chutiang rilru chu kalsanin opposite sex lam an awn leh mai thin a. Chutiang ni lova an tisa chakna homosexual tendency lama a kal thui palh thung chuan an rawn kawp chho mai thin niin an sawi. Chenna environment hi factor pawimawh tak anih zia ti lang chiangtu chu Central Jail hmeichhe awmna ward lamah khuan tang hlim, a lo tang saten mipa chei a an chei (an lo dawnsawn) fo chu hun eng emaw hnuah chuan mipa zia an la thuai a, Patil kan tih ang hian an zia a inthlak hlauh thei a ni.

Kan society chuan a pawm lo khawp hrih a, hun rei tak chhung he zia nei te pawh hi an inthup reng bawk a. Tun hnaiah erawh chuan langsar taka rawn inpho chhuak an awm ta nuk mai a, kan media lamte pawh an demawm theihna lai a awm awm e (min haw lo se!). Kan hnam hi inbawl ching kan ni hi a pawi khawp mai a, tu emaw tawng nem deuh an awm chuan kan bawl tuai nghal fo mai zel a, hengte hian a tihluar a ni thei mai awm mange ka ti ve thin. Kristian kan nihna atang chuan sual a ni han tih tawp mai hi thil awm tak a ni a, khawvel thlir dan atang erawh chuan mi mal dikna (rights) lam a hawi leh daih thei thung a, chuvang tak chuan chhan thiam pawh a har viau reng a ni.

Engpawh nise, i thianpa hi i duhsak hle a ni tih chu a chiang reng mai a. Amaherawhchu, eng ang pawhin zawtin dawp mah la, a sawi duh a rinawm loh. A lo kawp tak tak tawh anih phei chuan a inzep hlen ngei ang. A chhungte hrilh ta la an huat phah hlauh thei che a, chuvang chuan mi dang amah hre hnaitu chu hrilh lo phawt la. Amah dem emaw, dawp emaw ang zawng ni lovin hemi chungchanga a ngaihdan te leh a pawm dante zawt chhuak turin titi pui tum chhin ta zawk la. Harsatna a neih chuan puih i inhuam thu leh pui theitu tur pawh i kawhhmuh theih tur thu te hrilh la, chutianga i tih chuan a sawi chhuak duh mahna. Tawngtaisak la, kawm serh phah chuang lo la, nula han rimpuite pawh tum ta la, a rilrute pawh i thlaksak thei mahna.

A pawimawh ber chu hetiang nungchang neite hian anmahni an inpawm a, puih an duh (acceptance and understanding) a ngai a ni. Sawi tawh angin hetiang lama Counseling service tha taka pe thei te hi kan la tlachham hle mai. Synod kohhran hian mahni anpui kawp chungchangah ngaihdan fel tak chu a nei ngei mai a; mahse, harsatna tawkte lo puih dan tur, dawnsawn/kaihhruai dan tur te hi mumal takin duang thei se, chutiang ti thei tur trained Counselor te hi nei bawk se, mi tam takin an tangkaipui ngeiin ka ring.

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